Title: Navigating the Past and Present: A Letter to an Ex-Boyfriend

Dear [Ex-Boyfriend's Name], I hope this letter finds you well. I have been reflecting on our reconnection over the past year and the dynamics of our relationship. After ten years of no contact, our renewed interaction has brought many emotions to the surface, and it has required a lot of introspection on my part. First and foremost, I want to acknowledge the effort you have made to reconnect with me. However, I also feel it's important to openly address some of the concerns and feelings I have been experiencing. During our time apart, I grew and learned a lot about myself, my values, and what I deserve in a relationship. My past experiences with you were deeply impactful, especially the feelings of inadequacy, rejection, and the pain caused by your infidelities. Despite these painful memories, I chose to reconnect with you in hopes that things had fundamentally changed. While you tell me that you have changed and wish for a future with me, your actions and words often make me feel otherwise. Constantly asking for money and never being satisfied with what I do for you leaves me feeling used and unappreciated. The way you speak to me, at times making me feel disposable, is hurtful and does not align with the respect and mutual care that I seek in a partnership. Love and relationships should be built on mutual respect, trust, and a balanced give-and-take. I find myself giving more and more, yet feeling less valued in return. It is not just about financial support but about emotional and relational reciprocity. I need you to understand that I deserve to be treated with kindness, respect, and genuine care. I need to feel valued and secure in a relationship rather than feeling like I am being taken for granted or merely used for what I can provide. At this point, I am at a crossroads. I need to prioritize my well-being and make choices that are best for my mental and emotional health. If there is to be any future between us, there needs to be a significant shift in how we interact and how you treat me. I need to see consistent actions that align with your words and a true commitment to treating me as an equal partner. I hope you understand my perspective and respect my feelings. Take some time to reflect on what you genuinely want and whether you are willing to make the necessary changes to ensure a healthy, respectful, and loving relationship. If these changes cannot be made, then it may be best for us to part ways amicably. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I genuinely wish the best for both of us, whatever path we choose. Sincerely, [Your Name]