Navigating Intimacy: Tips for Comfort and Connection When Size is a Challenge

The average girth of a penis typically falls within the range of 11.66-12.19 cm (4.6-4.8 inches), so at 17 cm (which is approximately 6.7 inches), your girth is indeed above average. It's not uncommon for couples to face challenges with comfort and fit when the girth is larger than average. Here are a few suggestions that may help you and your girlfriend find a more comfortable experience: 1. **Communication**: Talk openly with your girlfriend about any discomfort or pain she experiences during intercourse. Ensure she feels comfortable discussing this sensitive topic. 2. **Foreplay and Relaxation**: Spend additional time on foreplay to ensure she's fully aroused and relaxed. Foreplay increases natural lubrication and helps the muscles in the pelvic area to relax, making penetration easier. 3. **Lubrication**: Use plenty of water-based or silicone-based lubricant to reduce friction and make penetration more comfortable. 4. **Positions**: Experiment with different sexual positions that might provide her with more control over the depth and angle of penetration. Positions where she is on top (like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl) can offer her more control over the speed and depth. 5. **Gradual Penetration**: Start slowly with penetration and avoid thrusting too deeply, especially in the beginning. Allow her body to gradually adapt to your size. 6. **Pelvic Floor Exercises**: Encourage her to practice pelvic floor exercises (Kegels). Strengthened pelvic floor muscles can help her control and manage discomfort better. 7. **Professional Guidance**: You might find it beneficial to speak with a healthcare provider or sex therapist. They can offer personalized advice and may have additional suggestions to enhance comfort and intimacy. 8. **Alternative Intimacy**: Engage in alternative forms of intimacy and sexual activities, such as oral sex or mutual masturbation, to ensure both partners experience pleasure without discomfort. Remember that it's important for both partners to feel comfortable and satisfied in their sexual relationship. Sensitivity, patience, and willingness to adapt are key. If discomfort persists, seeking professional advice may be the best step forward.