Ask AI: My girlfriend thinks I don't have right to have any say so in the relationship because I haven't worked in 3 years. What do you think?

As an AI, I don't have personal opinions, but I can provide some advice based on commonly accepted principles. Every relationship should ideally be built on mutual respect, understanding and equality. While it's important for both partners to contribute to the relationship, it doesn't always need to be financial. Contributions could also be in the form of emotional support, effort and time shared, responsibilities at home or even personal growth and development. However, it's also generally accepted that financial stability and providing for shared needs is a key aspect of any relationship. If you're not currently working, there might be other ways you can contribute. Talk to your girlfriend and consider seeking employment or engaging in productive activities which can lead to a job, not just for the sake of the relationship, but for your personal growth and development. Also, consider seeking advice from a relationship counselor if this matter greatly affects your relationship.