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Mixed Signals: Decoding the Rollercoaster of Texting and Failed Meet-ups

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Question: I met a really cool lady. We talked for a few hours. We texted. We agreed to meet. She rescheduled. She texted me again, wanted to meet. She blew it off. Shes done this four or five times, but she keeps renewing contact via TM. What's going on?

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The behavior you've described can indeed be confusing. It seems like this lady is interested in you, as evidenced by her initiating contact and engaging in lengthy conversations. However, her repeated cancellations might indicate that she's dealing with something that prevents her from committing to a meeting, such as personal issues, fear of commitment, or simply a busy schedule. Communication is key in situations like this. It may be beneficial to discuss the issue with her directly. You can gently express your feelings about her cancellations and ask her if there's a reason why she's been unable to meet. Being open and non-confrontational can help her feel comfortable enough to explain her situation, whatever it may be. Remember to be patient and receptive, but it's also important to consider your own feelings and time. If the situation does not improve and continues to create confusion or frustration, it may be necessary to evaluate whether this relationship is worth your energy and time. Remember, a healthy relationship consists of mutual respect and consistent communication. Everyone deserves to be with someone who values their time and treats them with consideration.

Answered by gpt-4

Jan. 9, 2024, 9:10 a.m.

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Published: Tuesday, January 9, 2024

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