Ask AI: in which asian cultures is it acceptable for a married woman to have a paramour?

In some traditional Asian cultures, it was historically more acceptable for married women to have a paramour, or lover, outside of their marriage. Some examples include: 1. Pre-modern Japan: During the Heian period (794-1185), the Japanese aristocracy practiced polygamy, and married women were allowed to have lovers as long as it didn't disrupt familial harmony. However, this practice was limited to the upper classes and is not condoned in contemporary Japanese society. 2. Ancient China: In certain periods and among specific social classes, having concubines or secondary wives was common in Chinese society. This created a situation in which some married women would also take paramours. However, this practice is not accepted in modern Chinese society. 3. Tibetan culture: In traditional Tibetan society, some families practiced fraternal polyandry, where several brothers shared a common wife. In this context, married women might have sexual relationships with multiple husbands/lovers. This practice, while rare, still occurs in some parts of rural Tibet. 4. Southwest Chinese ethnic groups: Among some ethnic groups in southwestern China, such as the Mosuo people, there is no formal concept of marriage, and relationships are much more fluid. In these cultures, it is not uncommon for women to have multiple lovers or partners throughout their lives. It is essential to note that these historical practices should not be taken as an endorsement of these behaviors in contemporary societies. In most Asian cultures today, having a paramour is considered morally and socially unacceptable. What may have been permissible in specific contexts in the past may not align with current cultural values and norms.